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Bridezilla’s Intense List Of ‘Save-The-Date’ Demands Has People Torn ????

Facebook: thats it, I'm wedding shaming (non ban-happy edition), Twitter: @bethveraldi

Wedding planning is stressful. There is so much to consider that it is no surprise that brides tend to go a little… crazy.

Even the beginning stages of planning can be overwhelming, like deciding where and when to tie the knot in the first place.

One particular bride has very specific dreams about her special day.

She wants a destination “somewhere” in Asia, so she knows that not all of her loved ones will be able to fork out the time and money that will be required for such a destination wedding.

That’s why she sent out a very detailed and somewhat aggressive save-the-date.

The save-the-date was leaked by one of her potential guests onto a Facebook group called, “that’s it, I’m wedding shaming (non ban-happy edition)”.

The group is private and the public post of the pre-invitation has since been deleted; however, luckily, screenshots exist.

The front looks innocent enough.


However, once guests flipped the page over, they were bombarded by a laundry list of information.


The bride informs guests that they will need at least two weeks off from work because,

“one week is to [sic] short for how long the flights are.”

She continues to tell guests they will need between $4,000 and $5,000 (not including the cost of flight).

She concludes the save-the-date saying,

“if you want to attend start saving your pennies now!”

Note that the save-the-date does not actually give guests a date to save.

Many people found the invitation to be inconsiderate and ridiculous.

However, others can understand the reasoning behind her aggressiveness.

I wonder how many guests will RSVP “yes.”


Written by B Miller

Travel lover, dog Mom, Slytherin, future wifey.