Wedding cakes are meant to represent the couple tying the knot. It doesn’t matter what other guests might think. Redditor caprisunmei encountered this very issue with her sister. So she turned to the “Am I The A**hole” (AITA) subReddit for moral judgment. She asked: “AITA for ruining my sister’s wedding with the cake I got?” […] More
Deciding to transition can come with backlash from our communities. It is heartbreaking to realize people you love might not accept you fully. But, the community we find in other members of the LGBTQ+ community is rich and can turn into a family. Redditor Relevant_Ad_3449 encountered this very issue with her sister. So she turned […] More
Where is the line between respecting your own difficult past and not projecting onto other people? One Redditor found that out recently. She posted about it on the “Am I the A**hole (AITA)” subReddit. The Original Poster (OP), known as aitapronouns123 on the site, was straightforward with her title for the post: “AITA for refusing […] More
Sometimes we do favors for others without a second thought. That is especially true for those we know who may have been through a tough time in the past or struggling in the present. But as a recent post on the “Am I the A**hole (AITA)” subReddit illustrated, sometimes the favor is just too much […] More
In many cases, it’s assumed one friend will help out another, no questions asked. But what happens if helping goes against the very real priorities or struggles of one of those friends? That was the situation faced by one Redditor, who posted her experience on the “Am I the A**hole (AITA)” subReddit. The Original Poster […] More
Finding your personal style takes time and money. Some people don’t have that, so they look for inspiration from the people around them. But when does it stop being flattering and starts being creepy? Redditor ineedhelpyall09 encountered this very issue with her sister. So she turned to the “Am I The A**hole” (AITA) subReddit for […] More
Home is supposed to be a safe place. A place where you are allowed to be whatever version of yourself you are most comfortable in. This doesn’t just apply to the owner of the house, of course, this is for everyone who calls those four walls home. What happens, though, when a frequent visitor to […] More
It’s not that uncommon for people to disagree with their parents’ social and political views, especially as we grow into adults shaped by the countless things that happened to us along the way. And while usually those divergences aren’t a huge deal–except maybe at Thanksgiving–they can sometimes become very serious disagreements, if the particular subject […] More
What’s in a name? For trans people courageously acknowledging their gender identity and claiming their destiny once and for all, a name contains a whole lot. A recent post on the “Am I the A**hole (AITA)” subReddit illustrated that fact directly. The Original Poster (OP), known as throwaway667311 on the site, used the post’s title […] More
It’s hard enough for a teenager to come out as trans when so many people are intolerant, whether that’s vocal or felt silently. But that battle can be even more steeply uphill if the teen’s loved ones don’t provide a truly massive amount of support while navigating the declaration of their identity. One parent found […] More
No matter how many times the concept is explained, some people just seem to refuse to understand how gender works—and it causes all kinds of drama for society and families alike. A teenage Redditor with a transgender sister found herself in precisely this situation on a family camping trip when the adults refused to allow […] More
Actively providing a public platform to typically oppressed voices is necessary, noble, and complex. Recently, one youth educator decided to do their part and rise to the task. They quickly learned about the complex part of that undertaking, and told Reddit all about the ordeal. Known as bdnxhxkdnx on the site, the educator explained it all in […] More
