"AITA for telling my sister that if she's going to spread the word of god to leave me out of it or leave me alone altogether?"She explained:
"Mine (25F[emale]) and my sister's (27F[emale]) relationship has always been strained due to total difference in personality, views, and morals. We just started talking again on New years Eve after having no communication for 7 months.
"She is fully aware that I am agnostic and hold resentment for Christianity. About 2 years ago we had many conversations about how my boyfriend at the time kept pushing how he wants me to accept Christ, and that it upset me because he knew I didn't believe and was never going to."
"At that time, she agreed with me that it is not his place to push his faith on me, as she was not Christian either. Today she texted me and these are the exact words that were exchanged:"
"Sis: Please accept Jesus into your heart soon. He loves you and so do I. I know you dont believe but I really hope you reconsider. I love you."
"Me: Lmao I love you too Please just don't send me texts like that man. I don't like being preached at and I will never reconsider. Thanks though"
"Sis: Im not preaching at you. That's how you see it. Jesus loves you and if you don't want to accept him i can't force you. Just pray for you and i am going to spread the word of god."
"Me: Stop. Seriously. Don't talk to me about it. I don't text you and stay please stop believing. So stop. If you're going to spread the word of God and involve me I'm not going to talk to you. It makes me uncomfortable. So kindly, don't."
"Sis: You dont have to get so angry. I never prached to you. I said one thing. You can stop talking to me that's your choice. But im not gonna silence myself to certain people. Sorry. Its probably for the best anyway."
"Me: Okay bye It is also your choice to preach at people who clearly don't want to hear it. Christianity makes me angry. The things you said made me angry. You don't get to dictate how your words make me feel."
"So enjoy spreading the word of god. That's YOUR choice. I will not pretend to be okay with you talking to me about things that make me uncomfortable."
"You don't have to silence yourself. Just leave me out of your spread, or leave me alone entirely."
"Sis: Ill leave you alone. If christiany makes you angry i unfortunately how no interest you being in my life."
"You shouldn't let words make you so angry. I wish you all the best. I hope your eyes will open soon before its too late."
"Am I the a**hole for my reaction after I told her to stop and she didn't?"
"TLDR: sister that I don't get along with texted me asking to accept Jesus into my heart knowing I disagree entirely with christianity. Told her not to preach to me or leave me alone entirely."
- NTA - Not The A**hole
- YTA - You're The A**hole
- ESH - Everyone Sucks Here
- NAH - No A**holes Here
