AI is everywhere.
At least that's how it feels from the way the world is talking about it.
The major pros of AI are still being weighed and determined.
The cons are rapidly being exposed.
Who is to say who should use it or not?
Redditor MissInterpret85 wanted to discuss their experience and get some feedback, so naturally, they came to the "Am I The A**hole" (AITA) subreddit.
They asked:
"AITA for not supporting my friend's 'AI music career?'"
The Original Poster (OP) explained:
"So a friend of mine likes to make music."
"She used to write her own music and lyrics and play them on a guitar."
"She has always been alright at both but never brilliant, which didn't matter because we were only jamming among friends."
"It was fun (I myself like to sing but also consider myself okay rather than actually talented)."
"About half a year ago, she discovered some AI music tool which you can feed with prompts and lyrics, and it'll spit out whatever genre and style you like with AI-generated instruments and vocals."
"I explained to her that I'm a little uneasy with the idea because it takes away from the creative process and 'craftsmanship' of making music, but I didn't press the issue because I thought it was just for fun."
"Now, though, she fancies the songs she's created with the AI so much that she's started a campaign for them."
"She's published an album on Spotify and advertises for it on Insta."
"She wants me to share her posts and support her 'music career.'"
"I don't want to do that."
"Does that make me a bad friend?"
The OP was left to wonder:
"So... AITA?"
Redditors shared their thoughts on this matter and weighed in on some options to the question, AITA:
- NTA – Not The A**hole
- YTA – You're The A**hole
- NAH – No A**holes Here
- ESH – Everyone Sucks Here
Redditors declared that OP was NOT the A**hole.
"NTA. AI slop has no place in creative roles/hobbies and will only devalue those with actual skill."
"Use in any other role that's not creative, all for it."
"But music, art AI should be shunned." ~ Aggravating_Part_120
"I had a friend do that and be super delusional about it."
"Also, the AI singing voices weren't even consistent 💀."
"I was pretty blunt and told him it was stupid, and he eventually stopped because it got no engagement, and I'm pretty sure people were making fun of it anyway."
"Honestly, either tell her straight up, or don't even bother because other people will crap on it anyway."
"She will get over it eventually."
"Also, AI music is so soulless and boring, no one's listening to that crap." ~ _yerdad_
"You're refusing to promote her ability to put in a prompt, you're not refusing to promote her music because it's not her music."
"It's basically a commission credited to a program." ~ lemon_charlie
"NAH. It actually gives wrong answers to technical problems."
"That makes it potentially very dangerous."
"Look how it is overriding insurance claims."
"Now, it should only be used for playing around."
"It has the ability to speak nonsense with authority." ~ LadyLightTravel
"It's absolutely terrible for the environment, and the ethical concerns are terrifying if you look into them."
"Until we figure out how to keep it from requiring ridiculous resources and can ensure it isn't actively willing to blackmail or harm people who try to shut it off, it should be shunned for pretty much everything. NTA." ~ rabid_rabbity
"No, absolutely NTA."
"She's using plagiarized slop and pushing it off as something real."
"She's lucky you're still friends with her." ~ Maridescent0
"NTA, she doesn't have a music career; the computer AI tool does." ~ Ok-Knowledge9154
"NTA. There's also evidence that using AI tools to generate your art actively erodes talent, and I'm honestly shocked by how fast that happens."
"Even writing simple emails seems like a Sisyphean task to people who've been using a chatbot for mere months."
"So her guitar talent, I wouldn't be shocked if it just disappeared."
"This is all ignoring the fact that her AI music is an amalgamation of stolen work stitched together without purpose."
"Rant aside, no, you don't need to cheerlead every friend's obnoxious decisions." ~ mooseplainer
"I don't know that helping someone cheat on a test would make you a good friend."
"It's basically the same thing."
"Taking the talent they were developing and watching them flush it down the toilet to take the easy way."
"AI music is surprisingly good, so I'm sure it's attractive, but the second people hear it's AI, there is pushback."
"I have a friend who started an 'AI' image business after trying to be an artist."
"All sympathy and support went out the window."
"If I can do it by typing in a prompt, it is valueless." ~ Scruffy42
"NTA. You don't need to act as a cheerleader for every person's activities."
"You can just wish her good luck and listen to her when she talks about it, but you don't need to go promoting it yourself." ~ Fearless_Spring5611
"NTA. I'm not the typical Reddit 'AI is the antichrist's more evil brother' type - I use AI."
"But there are places to use it and places not to."
"'AI music' is not one of those places."
"Especially if she's trying to make money from it."
"If I use AI to give a quick idea of what a character looks like in my D&D campaign with friends, if they unexpectedly go 'what does that guy look like?'"
"A quick, 'he looks something like that,' and move on, fine (describing not so effective for my group, one of my players has real trouble imagining something from just words)."
"Or use it to help outline thoughts - basically, brain dump all my raw thoughts into it and have it order them into a structure I can work with."
"But using it for the creative process, making money from it, and calling it a 'music career' crosses a line."
"It's not her music career."
"Anyone who put the same prompt in the same model would get comparable results."
"She's not material to the process." ~ axw3555
"She's not creating the songs; AI is creating the songs."
"Your friend is a failed hack who should never call herself a 'musician.'"
"Tell her her AI slop will never be real music. NTA." ~ ChimpBuns
"NTA, she's not a musician, no matter how much she wants to pretend like she is."
"If she ever cared about her art in the way that every musician I know does, she would never have something else do it for her."
"I would give a more personal answer to you, but frankly, your friend represents everything I despise in the world, and so that's all I can say." ~ DominoNine
"NTA. Realistically, depending on how competent the program is, it's likely that if she ever takes off, people will find out that she's using gen AI, which at a minimum would be embarrassing and at worst career-ending."
"Not even getting into the nitty-gritty of how bad it is for the environment and its general need to steal from work that it has 'learned' with." ~ SizeKind1035
"NTA. A true friend should be able to say to another when they have a problem with them..."
"You're not a bad friend."
"If she asks you why you are not sharing the music, you can tell her that you'll need the name of the AI to credit it."
"You can also thank her for her support of AI's career."
"But then, there are a lot of chances that she'll take it badly..."
"You can just say you won't (share, that is). It is sufficient." ~ BulleDeLaurierRose
"NTA: I'm a huge music fan and also a long-time tech person, so I'm not afraid of AI the way a lot of people are and actually do enjoy some AI music that's coming out."
"There are a couple of pretty cool YouTube channels."
"That said, you have every right to not support her if you don't like what she's doing." ~ NoHorseNoMustache
"NTA. Encourage her to work on her own lyrics and guitar."
"Nobody is born brilliant."
"AI can be fun, but if you use it for a creative career and you're not putting something very heavy edit work in after, you're not actually making anything, the computer is (most likely with stolen goods from others' work)."
"Honestly, I think I'd be a little sad if I got big but knew in my heart it wasn't really mine." ~ RandomRamblings99
"NTA. Personally, I've now almost completed my second AI Album with music tailored to me, but I'd never push it or promote it."
"Some people listen because they like it, and because it gets dropped in Spotify playlists, but I completely understand that some people just don't support AI Music, and so should your friend." ~ riddlerprodigy
"AI artwork and music are very unlikely to be copyrightable because it was not authored by a human (basic requirement of copyright)."
"She's not going to be able to license or protect any of the music, which would make it incredibly difficult for her to make a career out of this specific method."
"She would have to wholly rely on people actually buying the songs/album, but is at a substantial risk of others just straight up stealing it with likely no consequences."
"NTA. She's not building a viable career."
"I don't think any label would go for AI music given my above reasoning." ~ KaraofRowanFarm
"I'm not even reading this... NTA." ~ zombiifissh
Reddit is with you, OP.
This AI use is getting out of control.
Your friend is gaming the system while real artists suffer.
You don't have to support work you're not comfortable with.
Hopefully, she'll understand.
Good Luck.
















Woman Asks If It's Wrong To Cancel Date After He Makes Too Many Sexual Comments
Dating can be really hard, because let's be honest, as fun as it's supposed to be, there are some very strange prospects out there.
While some might just be socially awkward, there are definitely some walking red flags, ready to push every boundary, cautioned the members of the "Am I Overreacting?" (AIO) subReddit.
Redditor Suspicious_End_441 had been talking to a guy for a little while and was planning to go on a first date with him when he started sending her increasingly inappropriate text messages.
But when his texts went far past her comfort zone, especially for someone she'd never met, the Original Poster (OP) planned to call off the date and truly never meet the guy in real life.
She asked the sub:
The OP had been talking to a guy and was looking forward to going on a first date with him.
"For context, I (30 Female) met this guy online and have been talking to him the past few days."
"He asked me out, and we planned a date for today. He seems really nice so far."
"I like him, but he’s made a couple of comments that maybe seem like a red flag to me."
"First off, I did my nails for the date, and he asked me to send him a picture, so I did."
"Then he made some comment like, 'Those would look great wrapped around something.'"
"I kinda brushed it off because I know that’s how some guys are... but it did give me the ick a little."
"Then I asked him to tell me more about himself, and the second thing he told me was that he has a high sex drive."
The potential date texted:
The OP no longer liked the idea of dating the guy.
"Don’t get me wrong, I’m no prude, but this made me slightly uncomfortable. I’m wondering what reason you would need to tell this to someone you haven’t even met yet."
"I didn’t think he would be expecting sex on a first date, but this made me rethink."
"I’m also recovering from a surgery that I had three weeks ago, and he knows this. So that literally isn’t even an option for me, not that I would wanna do that on a first date anyway."
The OP considered never meeting the guy in person.
"I kind of feel like he’s making too many sexual comments too quickly, especially considering I didn’t engage with his first comment at all."
"Am I overreacting, feeling like I maybe want to cancel the date and block him?"
"I just feel like these comments are an indicator of his expectations... or maybe he is just 'being a guy'?"
Fellow Redditors weighed in:
Some had second-hand "ick" from reading that text message.
"NOR. My face when I read that text: [Dan Levy from 'Schitt's Creek']" - Unlikely_Captain_499
"I’d nope out right after the nails comment. After I blast him for being completely out of line." - WHYohWhy__MEohMY
"If he’s that comfortable saying stuff like that before he meets you, imagine what he’ll say after he knows you better." - ScrambledNoggin
"Gross. That joke should be saved for wife or long-term girlfriend where you know you'll get a laugh... or more accurately, an eye-roll and a 'threat' to not sleep with him for the next three months, LOL." - HovercraftIII1258
"Every time I get my nails done, my husband says something similar to that, and I always reply, 'I think they'd look good jammed in your eye sockets,' and we both laugh, LOL. But we've been married for over a decade. When we met and when we were dating, he was incredibly polite and possibly TOO slow in making advances. THIS is gross." - wingin_it0618
"This is exactly what I expect as a response from a man heavily in the dating scene right now. Like, sex is fine, but this guy really couldn't wait to go out on the date that was already set up and chill for ONE d**n night? If the girl is into you, it will happen when it happens. It says to me like he has no self-control." - BrayIsreal
"If he's giving you the ick, listen to that. It's not going to go away. Don't waste your own time or his. Plenty more fish in the sea, girl." - Zieglest
"As a man who is heavily in the dating world right now, that sounds like such a turn off, and any self-respecting girl who wants an actual relationship would not even talk to him anymore after this. It's so cringey and makes all of us guys look like there's no reason we want to go out with them other than getting laid. As a guy, it's really annoying; it makes girls weirded out by all of us. Sigh."
"Like, sex is fine, but this guy really couldn't wait to go out on the date that was already set up and chill for ONE d**n night? If the girl is into you, it will happen when it happens. It says to me like he has no self-control."
"That was the dumbest thing he could say to kill his chances. I wouldn't bother with him." - BrayIsReal
"NOR, I wouldn’t want to go anymore either. Making multiple sexual comments before even meeting someone is purposeful, and I doubt he remembers that you can’t do anything due to your surgery or even considers whether you want to."
"Don’t brush off how your gut makes you feel. If you are uncomfortable, then you are under no obligation to go." - AliBari
Others urged the OP to listen to her gut, not to go on that date, and to immediately block the guy.
"If he is already this forward, making sexual comments to a complete stranger, then it will only increase from here; he’s not going to suddenly stop. OP, if he already makes you feel uncertain or pressured, then don’t bother." - saiphxo
"Your gut is telling you something and wants to keep you safe. Don't ignore it." - SparkEli1
"Stay far, far away from this guy. Block. Don't look back. Men like this use high sex drive as a disclaimer for zero boundaries later." - CompetitionLankys
"Trust your intuition. Don’t go."
"I (39 Female) am very comfortable with casual sex and hook-ups. When single, I have never needed an emotional connection with a man to let off some steam. I don’t need him to make me feel special or like we have potential. I don’t need to know his hopes and dreams. I separate men into 'just sex' and 'potential for more' easily."
"I do need him to show the most basic level of respect and not be a creep. I would stop talking to this guy the instant he started speaking like that, even if my intention was to just f**k him."
"We are already talking, we are already about to go on a date, why is he turning it creepy sexual, what is that doing for either of us. It just speaks to a lack of judgment, I wouldn’t want to trust. If he can’t handle a basic text conversation without being a creep, why would I trust him to be alone with me?" - TheCa11ousB**h
"Ok, so I'm a degenerate, but even I wouldn't say something like 'those would look good wrapped around something' to a person I'd never met."
"I mean... do I have to be dad here and say the obvious? It's some guy on the internet who's looking to f**k. Is that really what you want? He can't even be bothered to type the d in the word 'and.'"
"Also, your nails look cool." - skippybeefree
"I’m more insulted that it’s just a terribly uncreative line. This guy's a bum!"
"Also, it's a huge red flag is the first thing he describes himself as a clean freak and needs things done his way. Sounds like a control freak, which would make me dip out immediately." - JeromeBarkley
"Only you know what you need to do. Feel safe. Feel comfortable. Feel SAFE!"
"If you don't, then cancel."
"Some men (I am a man) sometimes say way too much way too soon, and some men don't know how to hold a decent conversation. Sometimes just telling them how you feel about the sexual comments and seeing his reaction will tell you more than anything else he has ever said to you up until this point."
"But always remember you can choose to back out at any point in a date, even if you turn up to have dinner but can't walk in. The same goes for him as well if he turns up but doesn't walk in. We all have the right to feel safe and comfortable, especially on a first date." - Ok_goal6591
It was possible that the guy was just excited about the date, nervous to talk to someone new, socially awkward, or just joking at an inappropriate level.
Unfortunately, though, it was much more likely that these comments indicated the guy's expectations for the first date and how he would treat the OP if she set boundaries, especially regarding his inability to perform after surgery for safety reasons.
While it would be fun to meet someone new, it was much safer for the OP to wait for someone else.